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  • How to maintain intimacy in marriage after forty

    Опубликовано: 2025-01-15 15:28:44

    Once my friend, let's call her Tanya, after twenty years of marriage with Petya decided that it was time to divorce. The news was shocking: the family seemed to be ideal - a joint apartment, grown-up children, traveling. But, according to Tanya, their relationship has long lost passion. She said the key phrase: “I need not just a husband, but a man!”

    The problem of intimacy in marriage - especially after forty - often becomes a test for many couples. In the West, surveys have been conducted, according to which women at this age feel freer and more confident in their sexual life than in their youth. In Russia, however, such studies are rare, and society's attitude often leaves mature women “behind the scenes”.

    My friends and I decided to support Tanya and help her save her marriage. The first step was to turn to fantasy. Tanya tried to add romance by writing a declaration of love on a mirror. However, instead of the expected effect, Petya was frightened by the omen, breaking the mirror. Then we suggested changing the approach to a more daring one and adding an element of surprise.

    Tanya bought a frank waitress costume, prepared a romantic dinner and prepared for an unexpected continuation of the evening. However, everything did not go according to plan - Petya instead of romance chose to finish the pizza and fell asleep right on the couch. Attempts to cause jealousy by recoloring his hair and changing his closet also failed. The neighbor with the spaniel was pleased, but Petya took it as stupidity.

    Suddenly it turned out that Petya himself was preparing a surprise. The psychologist advised him to organize a joint extreme trip. Their goal - to climb a mountain in Spain - seemed absurd, but the idea worked. Having overcome fears and difficulties together, they felt important to each other again.

    Upon returning from the trip, Tanya announced that the divorce was canceled. She realized: it's not about complicated techniques or advice, but about taking action ourselves. It is important not to be afraid of change, to be open to new experiences, and to find ways to get closer together, even after years of marriage.

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