What really matters: how to diversify relationships

Intimate relationships between partners are a whole world full of emotions, passions and unexpected discoveries. What exactly is interesting to every person in this world can be very diverse.

For example, my partner once said: «Lie down quietly, baby, I’m here!» and after checking the reliability of my bonds left the room. I, strapped to the back of the bed, enjoyed the feeling of helplessness and waited for my return. After a few minutes he came back with the kitchen knife in his hand and carefully passed it on my skin. It was a thrilling moment, full of confidence and danger, that brought us both to the heights of uncharted pleasure.

This case made me think about our intimate preferences and how they reflect our personality and experience. The feeling of easy danger can exacerbate feelings and bodily reactions, making the intimate process more intense and exciting.

However, it is important to remember that everything must happen within the framework of comfort and consent on both sides. Each of us has our own preferences and fantasies, and that’s perfectly normal.

Our sexual preferences are usually related to personal experiences and can reflect psychological aspects of the person. If your partner asks you to spank him or uses rude words in the heat of passion, it does not mean that he is a perverted masochist.

This may be a chance to better understand his desires and experiences. Research shows that many people find in such actions an additional emotional connection with the partner, which helps to strengthen the relationship and increase mutual understanding.