Autonomy at your own terms

Independence is not dependent on age, educational status or social status. You can win the European Championship at 15, and you can be at 25 - on the neck of your parents. To choose your path, to become independent and self-sufficient, you don’t have to wait for a special moment. Read on to learn how to change your life for more independence and self-confidence.

Learn to Agree
Sometimes our own stubbornness prevents us from moving forward. If you have decided that just after the New Year, you and your partner will move to another city to start a new life, think twice. Perhaps you should listen to the advice of your loved ones, especially if it concerns more current affairs such as studies or careers. Sometimes compromise opens up new perspectives that can change your life for the better.

Bonus: The ability to compromise is an art. The ability to accept the point of view of a interlocutor and admit its error distinguishes a mature person from complex. Try saying, "Yes, I was wrong!" and wonder how the attitude of others will change.

Learn to Argue Constructively
Compromise does not mean losing your own opinion. If the teacher says that a chipmunk is a bird, do not agree just to get credit. It is important to have your own opinion and be able to defend it. However, do not confuse constructive disagreement with negative stubbornness - choose battles wisely.

Bonus: A person who can say "no" with reason and calmly, is respected. People who know where to draw the line are always respected and are an example for others.

Admit Mistakes
Making mistakes is normal. Everyone sometimes fails tasks, forgets important things or is late. But it is important not to hide from your mistakes, but to admit them. When you accept your mistakes and learn from them, you become a more mature and confident person.