What undermines relationships: the eternal struggle between roles and love

Often we get caught up in the daily grind, put on our work outfits and head off to work. We go through days, years, performing our duties as responsible female employees. We become passionless "men at work", but when we come home, we forget that after 6:00 or 7:00 p.m. we are first of all women - tender, affectionate, caring wives, mothers or just beloved girls. Leaving stressful outfits and heels at the door, we begin to show our leadership qualities in our personal lives. Every once in a while, seemingly close people, including even furry pets, become invisible. This is when resentment comes into our room, followed by loneliness. This is the moment when we turn on our inner "lament anthem," feeling that no one understands us.

Why does this happen? This is a question many women probably ask themselves as they try to figure out how to balance their roles. Why do women who become strong at work hide their sensuality at home? It should be recognized that a woman is a reflection of a man. How a man shows himself around a woman is how she reflects. Behind every successful man is the love of a woman, and behind a successful woman - betrayal of a man.

It is sometimes difficult for a man to admit to himself that he is vulnerable to a woman, and this can lead to suffering for both him and her. He may feel vulnerable when he has to play roles that don't suit him and conform to expectations he doesn't understand.

Society and tradition play a role in shaping our expectations about the roles of men and women. Expectations can be too high and communication remains inadequate. We strive to change relationships, but sometimes forget to start with ourselves. Our roles can be complex and ambiguous, but understanding and respect can help make relationships more harmonious.

As you finalize your role at work, don't forget that real life continues outside the door. Our relationships require effort and attention. Women, remember why you fell in love with your partner. Don't forget the feelings that once made him or her special to you. Your relationship may change, but there will always be love and growth.

It is important to realize that relationships are dynamic. Our roles may change, but the strength of our connection and understanding of each other can make our lives happier and more fulfilling.